When we are busy with our work, sometimes we are not able to listen to what the children say. We think that perhaps his words are not so important. But have we ever thought how this would make them feel? When we don’t listen to them, they may feel that their words have no value. This may make them feel depressed and they may become hesitant in expressing their feelings openly to us. Today we will talk about how we can build a good relationship with our children by listening to them.
Lack of self-confidence
When we do not listen to children, they start thinking that what they say is not important. This lowers their morale, and they become hesitant in expressing themselves in front of others. That means they lose confidence in themselves.
Effect on mental health
Children start feeling lonely and sad when they are repeatedly ignored. A feeling of fear and worry settles in their heart that they are not important to anyone.
Lack of communication
When children believe that no one listens to them, they become hesitant in expressing their feelings to anyone. This reduces conversation at home, and increases the distance between family members.
How to build a good relationship with children
- Listen carefully: When your child talks to you, pay close attention. Keep TV and mobile away and talk to the child. This will make them feel that you are really listening to them and that what they say is special to you.
- Take out time: There should be a time every day when you are just with your child. Be it mealtime or bedtime storytime, these moments strengthen the bond between you and your child.
- Encourage: Whenever your child shares something with you, So praise them and encourage them to share more. When you give importance to their thoughts and feelings, they will feel that their words really matter.